In a recent revelation, acclaimed novelist Jill Ciment revisits her past in her new memoir ‘Consent,’ where she dramatically revises details of her teenage affair with painter Arnold Mesches, whom she eventually married. This shocking tale dates back to 1970 when a rebellious 17-year-old Ciment, dreaming of becoming an artist, made a bold move that would change her life forever.
Ciment’s initial account of their relationship was detailed in her 1996 memoir ‘Half a Life.’ She described the moment she approached Mesches after class, unbuttoned her blouse, and kissed him on the ink-splattered studio floor. Mesches, 47 at the time and married with two children, reciprocated her feelings, and their unconventional love story began.
However, in light of the #MeToo movement and Mesches’ passing in 2016, Ciment started to reevaluate her narrative. Upon revisiting ‘Half a Life,’ she realized that her depiction of the events may have been skewed. She remembered the night vividly and acknowledged that she had initiated the intimate moment, seeking guidance from Mesches on her artistic aspirations.
As Ciment delves into her revised account in ‘Consent,’ she sheds light on the complexities of their relationship and questions the power dynamics at play. Her introspection offers a poignant reflection on memory, consent, and the evolving narratives we construct over time.
